I am in need of a friend. A friend with whom I can have expectations with out feeling guilty, who is there when I need, who doesn’t leave me as mood fluctuates and as times change. I don’t need a shoulder- I just need a hand to pull and which pulls me. I want a human being who shares at least 25% of my interests and inclinations, aged 24 or above, preferably female, though I can adjust with male species in the absence of female ones. I have no regrets of my previous friendships, though I regret the tragic end of one of it recently. It hurts a lot, I still don’t know whose mistake was it, but it was an acquaintance for nearly 9 years. And those who are away in touch… I still love them for all the good moments they gave me. But at present the best friend seat in my heart is vacant and I am waiting for an applicant, (I have one in the waiting list, who is miles aparT. Hello- I want someone near because I am not a philosopher to be satisfied by intangible things, phone, sms and emails) and I am feeling lonely at present.
NB: I am a hot tempered person, who easily gets hurt, have a lot of expectations, want honesty and sincerity. I will throw you out and will not hesitate to hurt you if you play with my emotions. In turn, if you are my true friend, I will love you with my whole heart and will nag you with my whole strength. Now, do you feel you want to withdraw your application?
The type of people you are looking for to make friends with, you will find a host of them in my family, both male and female. Since all are educated and apply common sense, they also may have their conditions in selecting and accepting a friend, a friend for their lifetime.
ReplyDeleteHello madam, is this post still vacant??? Any recent amendments in the conditions??
ReplyDeletejoyz: certain things in life is 'grabbed' it never just 'happens' or "comes to u"...this is what my life taught me..You should never wait some thing good to happen..especially when it is about a relationship and u know the person too..As u move in ur life it may change the direction..so grab it....the same way..most of the relations,which have a title of 'it just HAPPEND'...is a disaster at a later point of time...did anybody invited Ms. Tsunami to Jappan...no, it just Happend!!!!! alle??? U might have posted it as joke, but even I got a severe blow recently from a so called BEST FRIEND...who just happend.....commiting mistakes is not a crime..bt repeating it, is a crime....so don't wait for it to 'happen'...turn ur head from the screen...and go to the person and say...."u idiot...hmmm...how about a cofee this evening"......
To remind you:
NOW you are a friend who is 'just happend' to the other person.don't make him feel..what I felt some times back.